Becoming Yourself: Psychological Support for Identity and Belonging
Feeling unsure about who you are or how you fit in can be unsettling. Sometimes those questions arrive gently. Other times they come with confusion, pain or pressure from family, culture, faith, community or work. You do not have to carry that by yourself. Identity and belonging are about how you understand yourself and how you connect with others and your community.
When we talk say identity, we mean the ways you understand and describe yourself. That can include gender and gender expression, sexual orientation, cultural or ethnic identity, religious or spiritual beliefs, your role within family or work, and the values and stories that matter to you. Belonging is about feeling accepted and connected – being known by others and feeling part of a community that recognises you.
These parts of you often overlap. Your background, relationships, life changes, and experiences of acceptance or exclusion influence how safe and confident you feel being yourself.
How therapy can help
Therapy is a safe space to explore, not a place to be told what to do. Some ways therapy can support you include:
- Making sense of thoughts and feelings about identity and belonging
- Exploring values so decisions align with what matters to you
- Building skills for communicating with family or community
- Managing anxiety, shame or low mood that gets in the way of living authentically
- Working through the impact of discrimination or past hurt
- Planning practical steps when you are considering changes
We employ evidence-informed approaches, including cognitive behavioural therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, narrative work, family-informed approaches, and trauma-aware practice. Therapy is collaborative and tailored to your needs.
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How Logic Lounge Can Help
At Logic Lounge, we offer compassionate psychological care for people exploring identity and belonging. Our support options include:
- A thorough assessment to understand your background, supports and goals
- Individual therapy focused on identity exploration, emotional regulation and decision making
- Family or relationship sessions (if necessary) are helpful to improve understanding and communication
- Youth-friendly approaches for adolescents and young adults who are navigating identity changes
- Coordination with GPs, paediatricians, allied health and community organisations when multidisciplinary care is helpful
- Referrals to specialist services for legal, medical or community-specific needs
Our clinicians aim to provide a safe, respectful environment that honours your identity and life context. We do not make promises about specific outcomes, and we work with you to set realistic, shared goals.
A culturally respectful and affirming approach
We recognise that identity is shaped by culture, language, community and history. We aim to provide support that is culturally safe, trauma-aware and inclusive. This includes listening to the words you choose for yourself, recognising the effects of stigma and discrimination, and adapting our approach to fit your background and needs.
Confidentiality and professional standards
Our clinicians are registered health practitioners and practice in line with national professional standards. Clinical notes are kept confidential except where disclosure is required by law or is necessary to keep you or others safe. We do not use client testimonials on this site, and we avoid making guaranteed claims about outcomes. We will always be clear about what our care includes and when a referral to another service would be more appropriate.
Find the right Psychologist for you
Our find a psychologist search tool allows you to easily find a psychologist or counsellor, tailored to your area of concern, your preferred language and the location that might be closest to you.
Frequently asked questions
Can I see a psychologist online?
Yes. We offer secure telehealth (video call & phone call) appointments.
Do I need a referral?
No referral needed—you can book directly. A GP referral may help you access Medicare rebates.




















